COMPARING OTHER PEOPLE’S LIFE WITH YOURS KILLS YOUR JOY – SEE HOW

We all try our best in our daily life activities, we learn new things everyday, we get what we want by the kind of work we explore on. In life, we all try to get better every day. We all set dreams in our life. It may be getting a good salary package, getting into higher position, extending our business, or something else. To win the life race, we work hard and with the time we finally accomplish it. We become happy and celebrate it. It is all right and it should be in that way, and not to worry about what others have that you don’t have.

Note that our happiness lasts for very short time when we start comparing the things we have with others and that’s why you have to remain happy with what you have and not to look outside.

HOW COMPARING PEOPLE’S LIFE WITH YOURS KILLS YOUR HAPPINESS

No one wants to be below others, and that’s why we all want to get ahead among friends, colleagues, and even among family. If today you are happy just because you have more than others then be ready to lose your happiness because it will start vanishing when you see someone else having more than you even when you work hard. You spent months or may be even years to get where you are. But it will only take a few days to end your feeling of joy if it’s based on what others have.

Comparing your life with that of others:

Be contended with what you have. If you want to truly enjoy what you have achieved, Never ever compare it with others. There will always be some ahead of you and some behind you in your field.

Actually you can never compare yourself with others. You may know yourself completely. You may be aware of what you have and how you got that. But you can never know what circumstances someone else has and how he got that. You can compare one factor but you never even know other factors. What you see is not always the whole thing.

Do you think that someone is behind you just because he is not earning as much as you? No, he may be living his life better than you. He could be happier than you. So, what is the use of earning more, if you are not living your life well? You may be good at one thing while others may be good at some other thing.

Not Respecting people for what they are and not Loving yourself for whatever you are.

Think what you have done better today than you did yesterday. Keep yourself growing and celebrate your victories without comparing them to anyone else. It is good to get inspired from someone you think is better than you. But do not be held by comparison. Find your qualities, Develop it. Pursue your hobbies, Enjoy it. Do not compare and feel the joy inside you all the time. You’ll continue having your joy when you understand that people can’t be thesame in life. That height you want to reach will be attained if you focus on your lifestyle and if you want to compare, take only the good part that will change your mindset. Have a nice day!

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